“The success of a relationship is a function of the extent to which it meets the needs of two people,” Dr. Phil explains. Dr Phil is considered an expert on relationships by not one or two but many. He hosts a TV show popular for its real life situations and topics. This relationship guru preaches things most of us probably know; however he helps us incorporate these guidelines in our daily life in simple steps.
Relationship guidelines are no rocket science; there are no hard and fast rules of what will go right in a relationship and what might not work. What works for one couple in improving their relationship might not be the answer to miraculously improving your relationship. As a general rule all human beings are dependent on certain needs. Fulfilling these needs is very close to their heart. When anything is a hurdle in the fulfillment of these needs inconvenience is caused. Hence in relationships one should be very careful about looking after each others need; and not only that also about being careful not to overlook them.
Dr. Phil is to be heeded to when he says go discover each others needs: “Maybe she needs a soft place to fall that day or she needs a shoulder to cry on.” Gauge what she or he might need and try being proactive in giving it. This necessarily doesn’t mean that you have to agree with your partner in everything.