How To Choose The Right Partner?

When you step into the world of dating, many may come along and claim that they are perfect for you.Then how do you distinguish the genuinely good ones from the bad ones? Listed below are some traits that you must look out for in a perfect partner.

1. Loyalty

If they can’t stay loyal, they will not be able to love you enough. You will never be happy with a person like that. No matter what happens, never date a philanderer. You will not be able to stay happy with someone who can’t even stay faithful to you.

2. Maturity

Maturity refers to knowing how to behave in a particular place and a particular time. Maturity does not depend upon the age of a person. It is attained through sufficient experience. A mature person is the best catch you could ever ask for.

3. Independence

This refers to someone who has the potential to keep you happy. Don’t date someone who will only depend on you for every single thing.

4. Commitment

Commitment is very important in a relationship. Look out for someone who wishes to have a long term relationship with you. Run away from a person who keeps changing his mind at the snap of fingers. Unless you have a secure future with them, you cannot have a satisfying present.

5. Security

Go for a person with whom you can feel secure both emotionally and financially. In the absence of this, your relationship will have to face the trauma of insecurity and frustration.

6. Respect

Respect is important in a relationship. Stay away from a person who seems to insult people very often. If he treats you like dirt, he most certainly doesn’t deserve to be with you. A person who respects you will even respect the people who are important to you.

7. Good sense of humor

Always go for a person who can make you laugh. A good sense of humor acts like magic in any relationship. It can heal wounds, make boring times seem fun and it can change someone’s mood instantly. But most of all, it keeps the spark in the relationship alive.

8. Similarities

Find a person whose thinking is similar to you. It’s best to be with a person who has similar hobbies, point of view, tastes, preferences and nature. The more qualities you have in common, the more the two of you will enjoy together. He doesn’t need to be your clone, but some amount of similarity would surely help.

9. Smartness

He doesn’t have to be an Einstein, but some amount of intelligence will surely help. Being street smart and knowing how to deal with relationships is very important. After all, you don’t want to be stuck with a dumb headed person for the rest of your life, right?

10. Romantic & Affectionate

Go for someone who is highly romantic and likes to make things special for you. Cuddling, spoiling you sometimes, pampering you, planning surprises for you are all signs of a romantic person.

11. Sensitivity

As important as this quality is, it is quite rare as well. Most of the times, people lack sensitivity. Go for a person who is sensitive towards your needs and feelings.

12. Easy to understand

As far as possible, stay away from someone who creates unnecessary drama for no reason. Instead, go for a person who is easy to comprehend. It will save you a lot of trouble.

If you have already found someone like this, never let him go out of your life. Such people are truly precious.

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