Separation is a nightmare for a relationship but in some cases separation becomes the only option for the peace of mind of both partners. If you have decided to get separated from your husband then there are some decent ways of doing so they may be legal and emotional both.
Before getting separation from your husband make sure that you are ending this knot on a good will. Ending up with hate and bitterness in heart can affect your future relationship. Ensure your husband that you had a good time with him. Tell them their good qualities and those which you cherish. This farewell must be formal but very true and from honest. In some rare cases this show of good will and praising each other at saying good bye of separation even saved relationship from breaking down at last minute.
After doing that job of building good job come to the legalities. Yeah when a home breaks, the things in here also have to be divided. This thing involves the assets, liabilities and bills and above all child custody. Make sure and be clear what you want to keep and what you want to spare. In order not to be responsible for former husband’s liabilities you can file a petition telling the authorities that you have separated and now you have nothing to do with the particular man. In the same way you and your ex-husband should sit together and divide the bills and loans if any. Try to settle down these things in your own way or you can hire your own lawyers to interact and sort out the legal issues. As far as child is concern if a child is adult he can himself choose what parent to live with? Or if a child is toddler then in the same way you can file a child custody case for getting your child with you legally.
Neither separation is common if your tastes are not meeting nor if you both are not coming up to each other’s expectations. These are the moments when hearts are left broken. A proper counseling is necessary for coping with separations issues. You should make yourself vulnerable to any psychological treatment if you are suffering with any mental disturbance. Similarly make your children not suffer from the matters of separation. Give them love and proper answers to their questions they have about your separation with their dad. Make the separation effects less.