Kate Middleton, the Princess of Wales, has firmly established herself as an effective member of the Royal family and a loving mother to her three children. Praised by royal fans and experts alike, Kate has played a crucial role as a mediator between Prince William and King Charles, fostering a significant improvement in their father-son relationship through her tactful interventions.
Kate married Prince William, the heir apparent to the British throne, at Westminster Abbey in London on April 29, 2011. She not only adhered to royal conventions after joining the Royal family but also set her own rules and terms. According to palace sources, Prince William conveyed Kate’s “terms” to Queen Elizabeth and Prince Charles in 2015.
Royal author Robert Jobson, in his book “Catherine, the Princess of Wales: The Biography,” states that Kate made important agreements before embarking on her Royal journey. Jobson writes in MailOnline that Kate “wisely” set up fundamental rules prior to joining the Firm. “She wouldn’t be pigeon-holed into carrying out particular duties and insisted on eventually having her full quota of maternity leave, away from the glare of the media and public.”
Kate’s accession to the Royal Family came with both a title and a long list of responsibilities. However, she ensured that she would not assume her position without establishing some boundaries. Jobson claims Kate made it clear to the more senior royals that balancing her royal responsibilities and maintaining an enjoyable life at home was her top priority.
Kate did not intend to shirk her royal duties; rather, she wanted to provide her patronage solely to nonprofits that shared her values. Prince William communicated Kate’s “terms” to the Queen and Prince Charles when she was expecting Charlotte’s birth in early 2015. He explained that his spouse needed time to get accustomed to the idiosyncrasies of Royal life and wanted more space to grow into her role.
In an interview, when asked if she was anxious about filling the shoes of the late Diana, the former Princess of Wales, Kate admitted, “Yes.” Despite this admission, Kate has proven her potential and established her mark within the Royal family.
Her approach to her duties and family life reflects her commitment to both her public role and her personal life, demonstrating her ability to balance these demanding aspects with grace and effectiveness. This balance has endeared her to the public and solidified her position as a key member of the Royal family.