Melania and Donald Trump’s relationship, often scrutinized by the public, reveals deeper personal and ideological tensions during their White House years, according to American Woman: The Transformation of the Modern First Lady by New York Times correspondent Katie Rogers. Among these disputes, one striking clash centered on control of the television—a symbolic battle highlighting their contrasting personalities and priorities.
According to She Knows, Donald Trump remained fiercely loyal to Fox News throughout his presidency, while Melania preferred CNN, watching its coverage “voraciously.” This conflict came to a head during a July 2018 trip on Air Force One when Donald discovered a television tuned to CNN. Reportedly, he was “incensed” and issued an order that all TVs on Air Force One and in their hotel suites display only Fox News going forward.
Melania resisted but ultimately lost this particular battle, reflecting the broader dynamic of their relationship. Their differences extended beyond television to other aspects of life, including White House décor. Melania reportedly favored a modern, understated aesthetic, while Donald preferred more opulent, flashy designs.
Despite her efforts to personalize the residence, Donald replaced several of her choices with pieces he preferred. Rogers noted that even without control over the décor, Melania worked to project an image of optimism about her future in Washington. The tensions weren’t confined to the White House. In March 2023, the couple reportedly argued during a dinner at Mar-a-Lago, with witnesses noting that Melania appeared visibly upset.
While Donald’s team dismissed the incident, it fueled ongoing speculation about strains in their marriage. As to People, Despite these tensions, Melania’s public persona often contrasted with her private actions. While Donald’s headlines were dominated by controversial remarks, Melania occasionally offered subtle acts of independence.
For example, after Donald criticized Black athletes kneeling during the national anthem, Melania issued a statement praising LeBron James for his charitable work. Rogers observed that Melania’s measured actions, while small, often seemed aimed at calming cultural divides rather than exacerbating them.
However, moments like her infamous “I Really Don’t Care. Do U?” jacket complicated her public image. While Donald and his team claimed it was a jab at the media, insiders suggested it symbolized her frustration with the chaos of his presidency. Rogers concluded, “Her gestures, though subtle, often highlighted the complexities of navigating a role that demanded loyalty yet provided little control.”